Never Compromise On Your Vision

Do you find yourself compromising on your goals, lifestyle or the choices you make and then realise you could've ditched it at the time for something better in the future? Sometimes we make impulsive decisions at the time thinking that this is what it is and there is no tomorrow, but little do we realise that if we settle for the second-best option and not the best one.

By definition to compromise is to accept that you will reduce your demands or change your opinion in order to reach an agreement with someone.

In this article, we will use the definition above which came from the Cambridge Dictionary.

What triggers a compromise in the first place?

Lack of Understanding:

The difference between your first choice and a compromise is often misunderstood. This takes place in our subconscious mind making it difficult to analyse our thoughts and question our decisions. Just ask yourself - is this what I want? If the answer is no, then it's a compromise.

Indecisiveness:

The lack of taking a firm decision is an opportunity lost. Opportunities that may knock your door once in a lifetime or a rare event takes place in your life, in those moments you must make a decision. For example- accepting a better job than your existing one or make a real estate investment. In any case, indecisiveness is a compromise in itself.

Fear:

Fear is a bad demon that lives within each one of us, hence one should know how to deal with it. In my situation, the fear of getting stuck while trying to communicate effectively left me in a state of loneliness since I have a stammer from an early age. It was a compromise to refrain fro talking when I actually did want to say something and enjoy a conversation with anyone. Then came a day during the lockdown when I decided, I'm going to face this fear by talking hours and hours with members of The Indian Stammering Association.

Why do we compromise?

Lack of confidence

Your compromise is an indication that somewhere deep down inside, there's a feeling of not being worthy enough to accomplish your vision. Lack of a firm stand leads to unhappy decisions and unfavourable outcomes.

Pessimism

Pessimistic people have a negative attitude and focus on the negative aspects of life in general. A pessimist person may not even realise that their negative mindset is a compromise itself. It's best to think rationally and take each thing a face value before classifying it as negative or positive.

Avoid conflict

Now, this is my favourite point. The easiest way out of a conflict is to make a compromise. One who lacks a firm stand or confidence in his vision or a pessimist is more likely to make a compromise in major life decisions. Of course, there are exceptions to this, sometimes it works to delay the onset of a conflict but generally compromise is like a temporary solution to a bigger problem.

How to stop compromising and aim higher in life?

Take a Stand

It's time you become very clear, concise and precise about your goals leaving no doubts on yourself. You'll cry one day full of regret, either you'll express it to loved ones or keep it to yourself. The world has never been a better place to live with so many opportunities in the form of jobs, dating and investments waiting to be taken up by you.

Take Risks

Risk - take it or leave it but I assure you one thing, you won't regret it. Failure or success doesn't matter but your ability to learn does matter. Entrepreneurs are risk-takers no doubt because this is backed by curiosity, the more curious you become, higher risks you will take and reward yourself with higher returns or learning experiences. In any case, it is a win-win situation for you. Make sure it's a calculated risk, not a blind game of poker.

Abundance Mindset

When you know there are abundant opportunities out there for you, the need to compromise reduces. A compromise might arise due to shortage of time which is normal. It's better to plan in advance to allow that extra time for you to explore the price of those shares or a better job opportunity or even a better life partner, could be anything. Abundance mindset gives you choice, be a boss!

Conclusion - What changes to expect in your life?

You will take better and wiser decisions when you explore all the options with curiosity. Your confidence, clarity of thought and self-belief will become a part of your personality. Achievements beyond imagination will become very common in your life because of that drive to go that extra mile to get exactly what you want, at times to be surprised at better than expected results.